The loss of grandad has left a huge hole in our family. There is noone who can come close to the man he was. His heart was so full of love, pride and kindness that he showed us all and the staff at St giles hospice until the very end. He would always say he may not be rich in money but he is rich in his heart with his family.

He taught me love with the stories of his life with my grandma, which sadly was cut short. Despite losing my grandma 30 years ago he spoke about her and his love for her like no time had past. He made my standards high, i wouldnt want any love unless it was love like theirs. When I met my husband he told me 'never sleep on an argument, don't be stubborn' and the key to a happy marriage was trust. He read a beautiful poem he chose on the day of my wedding in the church which just so happened to be the same date as my grandma and grandads wedding anniversary. Despite the heartache, he delivered it so beautifully and I will forever cherish that moment.

No matter our mistakes he would see us no differently. Guide us with his love and wisdom. He had a way with words and could always pull out a quote or saying to uplift you and help guide you in the right direction. I know if I wanted to speak with anyone with out judgement and for guidance my grandad would always be there by my side. 

Throughout his diagnosis and battle with Cancer his family was at the very front of his mind. Are we ok? Will we be ok? But even when he was going through this horrible journey, he was happy that despite the circumstance he brought all his family together and enjoyed seeing us all together surrounding him. Showing him the love he has given all of us over the years. 

My grandad meant so, so much to me and it pains me hes gone. Im selfish to want him back but it comforts me to know he's finally reunited with his love, my grandma. I've never known anyone who loved as much as my grandad, so pure so genuine and we was all so incredibly lucky to of had this special man in our lives. 

Before his passing he told my daughter "i will take yours and your grandmas beautiful smile with me" because she looks so much like my grandma. What a beautiful thing to say. I will always carry that memory with me.

I could write here forever and ever with all the wonderful things about my grandad but I will leave it there and I hope others share things too.

Grandad, I miss you so much everyday. Your at peace now, reunited with your love and our mad auntie hilda. I know your always be with me, in my heart and in spirit.

Love you grandad, so much x